IN choosing to waive her anonymity, Gisèle Pelicot has paid a huge price.
But the gift she has made to women, especially those who have also been raped and sexually assaulted, is greater still.
EPAGisele Pelicot bravely waived her anonymity[/caption]
DRDominique Pélicot, 71, drugged his wife so that other men could rape her[/caption]
It was feminists that pushed for the change in UK law, which came into force in 1976, that gave victims of sex crime the right to anonymity.
Prior to that, women were very unlikely to report rape, because the humiliation of being named brought shame and stigma onto the victim, rather than the perpetrator.
In cases of sexual assault, all too often the scrutiny is on the woman, rather than the man that carried out the attack.
“What was she wearing?”, “Had she been drinking?”, “Was she known to be promiscuous?”
All these questions and assumptions put the focus on the victim. Gisèle’s willingness to be named and photographed by the world’s press, having been raped by upwards of 50 men, has taken ‘courage’ to a new level.
The late Jill Saward, known as the Ealing Vicarage rape victim, waived her anonymity after being repeatedly and violently raped by two men during a burglary.
Jill was only 21 at the time, but she went on to be a lifelong campaigner for the rights and protection of rape victims. Like Gisèle, she was a hero.
Now that the 51 men in the Pelicot trial have been convicted and sentenced, other rape victims, inspired by Gisèle, are saying they will also waive anonymity during any trial. I hope they do so with support, and without regret.
Some years ago, I interviewed an 18-year-old who had been gang raped and was determined that I should use her full name in the report in a national newspaper.
I gently dissuaded her from doing so, because she had her life and career ahead of her.
Jill Saward was another brave survivor who fought for women to be heard
EPABrave Gisele is pictured after today’s verdict saw 51 men found guilty[/caption]
I asked if she wanted her terrible ordeal to be the first thing a potential employer would see when googling her and she later told me she was grateful for my advice.
Gisèle has been a gamechanger. She has brought the truth about rape, and how ‘ordinary men’ who are part of the local community can and do carry out monstrous crimes.
She has shone a light on the perpetrators, and become an international feminist icon.
Gisèle will be forever remembered as a woman who shifted the focus onto the men who commit such heinous crimes. As a result, no stigma or shame has attached to her. Far from it.
I have campaigned my entire adult life to end male violence against women and girls, and fully support the right to anonymity for rape victims.
Men sentenced in Pelicot rape case
BY Ellie Doughty, Foreign News Reporter
A total of 51 convictions were delivered in sentencing for the horrific Pelicot mass rape trial on December 19, in Avignon, France.
They included:
Dominique Pelicot – 20 years
Romain Vandevelde – 15 years
Charly Arbo, Jerome Vilela, Dominique Davies – 13 years
Jean-Pierre Marechal, Thierry Parisis, Cedric Grassot, Hassan Ouamou – 12 years
Fabien Sotton – 11 years
Joan Kawai, Nizar Hamida, Karim Sebaoui, Vincent Coullet, Jean-Luc LA- 10 years
Christian Lescole, Husamettin Dogan, Simone Mekenese, Cendric Venzin, Cyril Delville, Redouane Azougagh – 9 years
Lionel Rodriguez, Cyrille Delville, Boris Moulin, Nicolas Francois, Thierry Parisis, Redouane Azougagh, Jean Tirano, Mohamed Rafaa, Mahdi D, Ahmed Tbarik, Patrice Nicolle, Gregory Serviol, Abdelali Dallal, Paul Grovogui, Omar Douiri – 8 years
Ludovick Blemeur, Quentin Hennebert, Mathieu Dartus, Florian Rocca – 7 years
Andy Rodriguez, Adrien Longeron, Jean-Marc LeLoup, Patrick Aron, Cyprien Aron – 6 years
Jacques Cubeau, Philippe Leleu, Hughes Malago, Didier Sambuchi – 5 years
Joseph Cocco, Saifeddine Ghabi – 3 years
I also wholeheartedly applaud every woman who stands up and uses her name without shame. Such women must have full protection and support from the criminal justice system, and from wider society.
As Gisele said, shame must change sides.
The bravery and tenacity of women who have endured terrible abuse never fails to bring me joy and sustenance.
I am one of countless women saying to Gisèle: “Thank you, sister”.
How you can get help
Women’s Aid has this advice for victims and their families:
Always keep your phone nearby.
Get in touch with charities for help, including the Women’s Aid live chat helpline and services such as SupportLine.
If you are in danger, call 999.
Familiarise yourself with the Silent Solution, reporting abuse without speaking down the phone, instead dialing “55”.
Always keep some money on you, including change for a pay phone or bus fare.
If you suspect your partner is about to attack you, try to go to a lower-risk area of the house – for example, where there is a way out and access to a telephone.
Avoid the kitchen and garage, where there are likely to be knives or other weapons. Avoid rooms where you might become trapped, such as the bathroom, or where you might be shut into a cupboard or other small space.
If you are a victim of domestic abuse, SupportLine is open Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday from 6pm to 8pm on 01708 765200. The charity’s email support service is open weekdays and weekends during the crisis – [email protected].
Women’s Aid provides a live chat service – available weekdays from 8am-6pm and weekends 10am-6pm.
You can also call the freephone 24-hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247.
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