SNOOKER star Shaun Murphy has revealed he remains estranged from his father and regrets their relationship has become irreparable.
Should the Magician, 42, win a second world title over the next three weeks, it is “upsetting” that his dad Tony, a former pro golfer and high-flying Mercedes-Benz executive, will not be in his corner.
GettyShaun Murphy’s relationship with dad Tony has broken down but the snooker star ‘wishes him no malice’[/caption]
PAMurphy has admitted his dad has never met his own daughter, while seeing his son only once, when he was just a year old[/caption]
Tony played a pivotal role in his son’s snooker upbringing until he split from his wife when Murphy was a teenager – but the pair have not spoken for many years.
Speaking exclusively to SunSport, Murphy – who has two children – said he bears no malice or ill-feeling towards his dad.
But Murphy, who is also a top keynote speaker, admitted: “It’s very, very disappointing and very upsetting how that has worked itself out.
“As a father now myself, I see the breakdown over that relationship through totally different lenses and from a different perspective than I ever did.
“We haven’t spoken properly for a long, long time.
“I always thought that as the son, when I chose and wanted to go back through the door of reconciliation with my father, that that door would be open to me.
“I always assumed as the son that opportunity would be there.
“It turns out I was wrong. It takes two to tango. You know, I have offered him an olive branch several times. Including very recently.
“And somehow he has managed to snatch defeat from the jaws of victory.
“You’d think that that man that raised me and I grew up with… well, actually I don’t know him at all.”
PAMurphy admits he ‘feels’ for his dad amid the breakdown in their relationship[/caption]
Murphy continued: “He’s not the man I thought he was. I wish no malice at all. I wish him no ill whatsoever.
“But he doesn’t have a relationship with me. Nor my brother and sister, their families, their children…
“He has met my son once when he was one year old. He has never met my daughter and it doesn’t look like he will.
“He’s the only one who’s missed out in that situation. I feel for him. I wish it was different but it’s not.”
Murphy grew up in the Northamptonshire village of Irthlingborough and lived a comfortable life until the 1987 Black Monday financial crash.
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One minute “we had a nice life, a nice house, two holidays a year, two new Mercs on the drive” and then the “bank took everything away”.
The family came close to losing everything, including their home, until the charity of neighbours saved them from becoming homeless, giving them a property at a discounted rent rate.
It was years later that Murphy managed to secure a five-year £5,000-a-year commercial deal with local firm Dr Martens that was beneficial to his snooker progression.
Yet until then, the 2005 world snooker champion and his family “lived by the seat of our pants for years”.
He said: “Carboot, jumble sales, house clearances. I watch Bargain Hunt now on TV and I think, ‘That was my life. I go into an antique fair and it’s like being ten again.’”
List of all-time Snooker World Champions
BELOW is a list of snooker World Champions by year.
The record is for the modern era, widely considered as dating from the 1968-69 season, when the World Professional Billiards and Snooker Association (WPBSA) took control of the sport.
The first World Championships ran from 1927 – with a break from 1941-45 because of World War II and 1958-63 because of a dispute in the sport.
Joe Davis (15), Fred Davis and John Pulman (both 8) were the most successful players during that period.
Stephen Hendry and Ronnie O’Sullivan share the record for the most titles in the modern era, with seven each.
1969 – John Spencer
1970 – Ray Reardon
1971 – John Spencer
1972 – Alex Higgins
1973 – Ray Reardon (2)
1974 – Ray Reardon (3)
1975 – Ray Reardon (4)
1976 – Ray Reardon (5)
1977 – John Spencer (2)
1978 – Ray Reardon (6)
1979 – Terry Griffiths
1980 – Cliff Thorburn
1981 – Steve Davis
1982 – Alex Higgins (2)
1983 – Steve Davis (2)
1984 – Steve Davis (3)
1985 – Dennis Taylor
1986 – Joe Johnson
1987 – Steve Davis (4)
1988 – Steve Davis (5)
1989 – Steve Davis (6)
1990 – Stephen Hendry
1991 – John Parrott
1992 – Stephen Hendry (2)
1993 – Stephen Hendry (3)
1994 – Stephen Hendry (4)
1995 – Stephen Hendry (5)
1996 – Stephen Hendry (6)
1997 – Ken Doherty
1998 – John Higgins
1999 – Stephen Hendry (7)
2000 – Mark Williams
2001 – Ronnie O’Sullivan
2002 – Peter Ebdon
2003 – Mark Williams (2)
2004 – Ronnie O’Sullivan (2)
2005 – Shaun Murphy
2006 – Graeme Dott
2007 – John Higgins (2)
2008 – Ronnie O’Sullivan (3)
2009 – John Higgins (3)
2010 – Neil Robertson
2011 – John Higgins (4)
2012 – Ronnie O’Sullivan (4)
2013 – Ronnie O’Sullivan (5)
2014 – Mark Selby
2015 – Stuart Bingham
2016 – Mark Selby (2)
2017 – Mark Selby (3)
2018 – Mark Williams (3)
2019 – Judd Trump
2020 – Ronnie O’Sullivan (6)
2021 – Mark Selby (4)
2022 – Ronnie O’Sullivan (7)
2023 – Luca Brecel
2024 – Kyren Wilson
Most World Titles (modern era)
7 – Stephen Hendry, Ronnie O’Sullivan
6 – Ray Reardon, Steve Davis
4 – John Higgins, Mark Selby
3 – John Spencer, Mark Williams
2 – Alex Higgins
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